Third Wheel is video series in which a relationship therapist (me!) "crashes" dates and learn how partners are making love work. It’s a joyful, tender YouTube series that celebrates the creativity, tenderness, and resilience of queer love as something worth learning from.

This project has been in the works for over a year, and along the way, several production companies offered to buy it, but I've said no...I don't want a show with "gotcha" moments, villain edits, or that creates drama for virality's sake.

I'm going for the soft, playful vibes of The Great British Bake Off, but for relationships: warm, playful, and honest. Each episode invites real partners into a guided date experience designed to celebrate all of us.

That's why I’m taking the risk of self-producing, which means I get to protect my vision of a show that treats our relationships with nuance, dignity, and delight. It also means I can’t do it alone.

If this sounds like the kind of media you want more of, your support is what's going to make this possible.  One episode costs about $3000 to produce, pay my crew, and edit...and I'd love to film an 8-episode season!

I'll post updates here as we go <3

Thank you for helping bring Third Wheel to life!